Angry Sex
Angry Sex
Ray and Debra in bed in "Angry Sex"
Season 9
Episode 3
Air Date October 4, 2004
Cast Ray Romano
Patricia Heaton
Brad Garrett
Doris Roberts
Peter Boyle
Madylin Sweeten
Sawyer Sweeten
Sullivan Sweeten
Director(s) Kenneth Shapiro
Writer(s) Ray Romano
Lew Schneider
Mike Scully
Preceded by Not So Fast
Followed by P.T. & A.

Angry Sex is the 3rd episode of Season 9, and is episode 197 of the full 210 episodes for the entire series.

Episode InformationEdit


Marie makes a comment about the twins needing a haircut, which causes Debra to feel like Marie is being over critical. She is so angry that she can't sleep, leading her to have sex with Raymond.

Raymond tells Bernie & Gianni about the angry sex, which disgusts Robert. When Debra returns angry, Ray makes his friends leave so he can tend to his wife.

Before he can get upstairs, Marie returns to the house with a cake to apologize to Debra. Ray lies to her and tells her that Debra is sick. After Marie leaves, Ray returns to Debra to once again have angry sex.

The next morning, Marie comes back to check on Debra. As Ray tries to lie again, Debra enters looking healthy much to Marie's surprise. Debra finds out that Ray lied about his mom apologizing. When she asks why, she realizes that he lied to her for sex.

That night, Ray accuses Debra of using him for sex as a form of tension relief. Debra doesn't respond as Ray grabs his blanket to go sleep on the couch.

Running GagsEdit



  • MARIE: Oh, I am surprised, Raymond. You're supposed to think of your mother before sex.

  • RAY: Does the term, "angry sex" mean anything to you?
  • BERNIE: Oh, yeah. You mean like when the wife gets angry 'cause we wrap it up a little too soon?

  • FRANK: You, my boy, are a girl.
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